Shooting Stars for my dad

Sanjeev’s story

My dad Parduman was and always will be my hero. He was the type of person who believed in working hard and in looking for the best in everyone.

Dad was a tall, strapping man but he always had a twinkle in his eye and a famously sarcastic sense of humour.

Growing up, he could be quite tough on us kids. We found out it was because he’d taken on a lot of overtime to get extra money for our schooling – our education was hugely important to him.

Dad taught maths and modern studies, and for many years worked in a secure school in Bishopbriggs. It could be really challenging but he always treated the young people there with respect and did whatever he could to encourage them.

About nine years ago, Dad had a stroke and his health declined quite dramatically. He had always appeared young and fit but from that point he suddenly looked his age. He got increasingly forgetful and was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease.

It was hard watching his condition deteriorate, but even right at the end he still had that twinkle in his eye. Dad passed away in 2024 aged 90. We all miss him very much.

The experience inspired me to support Alzheimer Scotland, and I’m looking forward to taking part in their Shooting Stars event in April 2026 for the second year. I’ll be lacing up my football boots and playing alongside some big names, so I just hope I can keep up the pace.

I’ve experienced first hand the huge impact dementia can have on families and there’s not nearly enough funding for people to get an early diagnosis or to access the care and support they need as the condition progresses.

I hope this event helps raise awareness and funds to help Alzheimer Scotland continue to carry out their vital work.