Running together for a cause close to our hearts

Angela’s story

This past year has been a big one for our family. Both of my parents were diagnosed with dementia and, while it’s been a challenge, it’s also brought us closer together and inspired us to do something positive.

My mum Grace, 90, is a retired operating room nurse and has always been the strong, determined one who managed the household. When she began forgetting things and even struggled to find her way home from the shop, we knew something wasn’t right. She was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease – a tough reality for all of us.

Not long after, my dad Frank, 83, who had already suffered strokes, also began having memory problems. His diagnosis came back as vascular dementia, and his condition has progressed quickly.

Despite the diagnoses, my husband Mick and our two kids, Gabby, nine, and Danny, seven, have risen to the challenge. We made the decision to move into a home where we could create a safe space for my parents, ensuring they were always near us and well supported.

The kids have been amazing. They walk with granny, pop in for chats, and even make chapatis with her. It’s moments like these that remind me how powerful family connections are, even in the face of dementia.

With carers supporting us daily and both Mick and I working full-time, life is busy. But we wanted to turn our energy into something positive – so we decided to run a family 5K to raise money for Alzheimer Scotland.

It was the first time the kids had taken on something like this, and they were buzzing with excitement. Training was sporadic to say the least, but they rose to the challenge. On the day, Gabby and Danny ran their hearts out, never once complaining, and were absolutely thrilled to receive their medals at the finish line.

The support from friends and family has been incredible, and together we raised £550 for an organisation that makes a real difference for families like ours. My hope is that this is just the beginning – that Gabby and Danny grow up inspired to keep helping others.

Because while dementia is part of our family’s story, so is love, resilience, and the joy of doing something good together.